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Hypnotherapy: What’s it really all about?
By Roger A. Johnson, C.Ht., Ph.D., B.C.E.T.S.
Uploaded 24.10.2000
Hypnotherapy is simply the use of hypnosis to
enable you to take control of feelings, behaviors, habits, and
self-image. In the last fifteen years I have seen just about every
possible human problem one can imagine. I could not begin to guess
how many times I have heard a client, in describing what they want
to accomplish in hypnotherapy say, “ You’ve probably never heard of
someone with THIS problem.”
It seems most people feel as if they and their
problems are unique among human experience. While our experiences
make each of us unique, what we feel, how we respond to the world
around us, and how we interact with other people is not unique. We
all have the same senses. The way we deal with this life is greatly
variable, but only within certain parameters. There are boundaries
to human experience and behavior. Your feelings, thoughts,
behaviors, and problems aren’t as strange or unusual as you might
think.
People don’t tell others about their fears,
doubts, worries, anxieties, or things they think are strange about
themselves. Believe me, whatever your difficulty in life might be,
it isn’t as strange or unusual as you think. I have never been
shocked by something a client told me. As a matter of fact, I
haven’t even been surprised in many years. There are only so many
things humans can do.
There certainly have been some clients over the
years for which hypnotherapy was not the appropriate form of
therapy. These people were referred to other professionals. In most
cases the presented problem is far less serious than people think. I
believe that in most instances people can solve their own problems,
with a little understanding, direction, positive motivation, and
effective mental dynamics.
Hypnotherapy, of course, uses the mental tool of
hypnosis. Many people have seen too many movies or television shows
where a writer needed a magical solution to a plot problem and used
that mystical power of hypnosis to solve his problem. Hypnosis is
NOT mystical or magical in any way. It IS a very effective mental
tool that enables people to take control of things that may have
seemed beyond their control in the past. Hypnosis is a completely
natural, yet different, state of consciousness from the normal
waking state. When a person is in the state of hypnosis he is
completely awake and alert. He knows exactly what is happening at
all times. You can not be controlled by someone using hypnosis.
While under hypnosis, your awareness is actually heightened and
carefully focused. You become very receptive to positive suggestions
that are acceptable to you, and are able to learn from the
artificial experiences perceived in the hypnotic state.
I have been asked, hundreds of times, “ What
about those stage shows where they make people do all those
ridiculous things?” They don’t MAKE anyone do anything. Think about
who goes up on stage and why. You would certainly never see me up
there! I don’t like being foolish in public. These people are
volunteers. They want to be foolish and playful on stage and not be
responsible for their behavior. They are having fun. None of them
will ever do anything they don’t want to do under hypnosis. No one
ever does. A person under hypnosis is only doing what he wants to
do.
A well-trained and experienced therapist can use
the artificial experiences perceived under hypnosis to desensitize a
client’s fears, improve his self-image, or gain other behavioral or
emotional goals. Goal achievement is an area of human behavior where
this tool of hypnosis is very helpful. Other areas include
overcoming fears, improving sports, performance, stress control and
relaxation, elimination of habits, gaining self confidence, sexual
dysfunction, and success motivation. Basically, if a feeling or
behavior in your life is undesirable to you, in most cases
hypnotherapy can be of value.
The real goal in most cases is for the client to
learn effective mental dynamics and take control of his life. There
are no easy fixes. There is no magic or effortless cure for your
problems, but with a little knowledge, a little effort, and personal
responsibility you can make your life what you want it to be. The
only magic is responsibility and work. It helps a lot to have
effective tools and the knowledge with which to use them well. Your
life should be what you want it to be. It is your life. Take control
and get what you desire out of it. |